Tag Archives: Mental health therapy

Avoiding a trip to the emotional vomitorium

Have you ever been hit up alongside the head with any of these winners? “You’re overreacting. It’s not that big of a deal.” “You are just too sensitive. That’s your problem.” “I can never tell you anything without you having … Continue reading

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Things don’t always mean what you think they mean in therapy. Part 4.

I love hearing stories about experience with other therapists. I think it is a very important thing to pay attention to. Especially when people make comments or complaints about being confused by what their therapist does or doesn’t do in … Continue reading

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The Shame Sandwich

The Therapy is Dandy Guidebook to having a Narcissist for a Parent. Chapter 15. An ongoing survival guide. No, this is not going to be a review of the movie Shame, starring Michael Fassbender.  But if, for whatever reason, you … Continue reading

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The Therapy is Dandy Guidebook to having a Narcissist for a Parent. Chapter 11.

An ongoing survival guide. Chapter 11. Maybe not a Narcissist in name, but surely one in (mis)deed. Recently, I was asked by a client for a definitive judgment on whether their parent was or was not a narcissist. As a … Continue reading

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Things don’t always mean what you think they mean in therapy. Part 2.

So what happens in therapy if you have nothing to say? Or, maybe you are considering therapy and don’t think you have anything to say when you get there? It might be comforting to know that this happens all the … Continue reading

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Therapy is Dandy Guidebook to have a Narcissist for a Parent. Chapter 10.

An ongoing survival guide. Chapter 10. Suit up. In the last chapter I brought up the idea of psychic armor, or the suit, this week we take the suit in for some alterations. One of psychology’s more interesting and bizarre … Continue reading

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